Believe More, Talk Less and Follow the Golden Rule


Homily for February 20, 2018.


“And in praying do not heap up empty phrases as the Gentiles do; for they think that they will be heard for their many words. Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask him.” Matthew 6:7-8. 

As the saying goes, “empty vessels make the loudest noise.” When a man knows the stuff he is made of, he does not talk too much anymore. The ability to talk very well is a gift but talking too much is a vice, a bad habit. As part of his sermon on the Mount in Matthew 6, Jesus warns us about talking too much or repeating ourselves over and over again when we pray.

The effectiveness of prayer is not a matter of the number of words used, but the faith with which every word is spoken. The book of Hebrews tells us: “Without faith it is impossible to please him. For whoever would draw near to God must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who seek him.” Hebrews 11:6.

Before ever we set out to pray, we must first assure ourselves that God is more than able to grant our requests. We must remind ourselves of what God has done in the past and face the truth that no situation is beyond God. in this regard, in the book of Isaiah, God assures us that just as the rain drop from heaven and never returns until it has watered the earth, God’s words can never return empty. Isaiah 55:10-11. This should propel us to pray.

Dear friends, the simple truth is that when we have to repeat ourselves over and over again in prayer, it shows that we don’t believe our prayers have been heard or will ever be heard. The deeper your faith in God, the lesser the number of words you employ in prayer. By shouting at the top of your voice, it is either you just want people to hear you pray, (that is, you just want to attract attention to youself) or you are actually showing that God is far from you or that God has hearing problem.

The Gentiles were of the habit of using “empty phrases” at prayer. A lot of the speaking-in-tongues we Christians do today are “empty phrases.” We know such tongues are not inspired by the Holy Spirit yet we force all kinds of sounds from their mouths to make people believe we can pray. We end up making mockery of prayer.

In teaching us the Lord’s prayer, Jesus wants us to learn that prayer is a father-child conversation; a community factor; a co-ordinated affair. Jesus not only gave a formula for prayer, he shows us that all prayer deserves a formula. In the Lord’s prayer, Jesus did not speak in tongues, rather, he taught us to use real words that are sensible and meaningful. We should stop trying to make people feel that if they don’t speak in tongues, their prayers do not carry weight.

Above all, in this prayer, Jesus teaches us that words alone are not even the essence of prayer. Prayer is not complete without the necessary corresponding actions. My prayer is useless if I don’t follow the Golden rule; if I don’t treat people just as I want to be treated. If I don’t forgive those who offend me, I waste time asking God to forgive me my own faults.

Prayer must go with action, whatever I ask from God, I too must be willing to give to my fellow brothers and sister. Prayer is a Cross; the vertical line depicts our reception from God while the horizontal line depicts our sharing with one another. Prayer must benefit others. I dare not ask God for divine protection while I wish death for someone else. The divine protection I plan to receive from God must extend to people otherwise my prayer is null and void.

Let us Pray: Lord Jesus, renovate my prayer life; deepen my faith in you that I may realize the need to use less but meaningful words in prayer. Amen.

*Be happy, live positive, it is well with you. Tuesday of the First Week of Lent. Bible Study: Isaiah 55:10-11 and Matthew 6:7-15.*

Fr. Abu. 


Nb. Based on today’s homily, one might be tempted to ask: What about the Rosary? Isn’t it a prayer of repetition which falls under what Jeus condemns? The answer is No. The Rosary is first and foremost a meditation on the life of Christ, the events of his birth, his teachings, his sacraments, his suffering, his death and resurrection and the implications of his life on us. The “hail marys, our fathers and glory be”only help to facilitate this meditation. Take away the meditation, the rosary prayer becomes a mere repetition; a motion without movement.

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